10 newborn night time tips
Adjust your expectations
There’s always one smug new mum whose baby sleeps through the night from 4 weeks, but for the rest of us it’s likely to take a bit longer. A tiny baby can sleep from anything between 12-20 hours per day, however most of that will be in short three to four hour naps.
And in newborn-speak, ‘sleeping through’ doesn’t mean a straight eight hours.
A good night’s sleep is actually around five or six hours, which may not sound like much, but is enough to keep you just-about-sane until they get a little bit older.
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Establish a routine
Babies are creatures of habit, and are more likely to be happy and settled if they know what to expect and when. When it comes to bedtime find a routine that works for you and stick to it, even when you’re away.
Give them a warm bath, a feed, a lullaby and then put them down in a quiet, darkened room so they learn that their bed is a safe and comfortable place to be.
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Teach them night from day
In the womb your baby was lulled to sleep by your daytime movements, and would wake up for a kick-about when you stopped.
It can take a while to settle into a more reasonable pattern, so help them out by teaching them night from day. During the day, keep them stimulated and don’t creep around when they’re sleeping.
At night, keep the room dark during feeds, don’t look them in the eye or talk to them (no matter how cute they look), and only change them if they really need it.
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Swaddle them
Swaddling is an age-old technique used to wrap babies up tight and snug, mimicking a cosy womb-like environment.
It can help settle them when restless, prevent the startle reflex from waking them, and help them adjust to the big wide world. Ask your health visitor to show you how, or invest in a specially designed swaddle blanket.
You can only swaddle up until one month though, as after that it can restrict movement and hamper their motor development.
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Don’t pick them up the second they cry
It can take a while for babies to learn to settle themselves to sleep, but picking them up every five minutes can just make them overstimulated - and more tired.
If they cry when you put them to bed, try leaving them for 5-10 minutes before going in to soothe them. Stay for a minute or two to reassure them that you’re there.
Stroke them and speak softly, but resist the temptation to pick them up. Increase the time between your visits until they learn to fall asleep on their own.
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Don’t rock them to sleep
It’s natural for a newborn to fall asleep at the breast, or when they’re being held, but if they only associate sleep with a cuddle they are unlikely to settle themselves.
When you put them to bed make sure they are drowsy but awake, and if they do fall asleep at the breast try waking them gently before putting them down.
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Learn to speak their language
Struggling to get your baby to sleep when you want them to? It could be that they are just not tired, or are so ‘overtired’ that they’re finding it hard to settle.
Watch them for signs of tiredness – are they fussing, yawning or rubbing their eyes? If they get too tired they can become overstimulated, which makes it even more difficult for them to relax.
Trust your instincts and you will soon learn to recognise when they are ready to sleep.
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Let them nap
In the early days a newborn will sleep and wake throughout the day and night, but after six weeks or so will begin to sleep for longer stretches.
Regular naps will help them to sleep better at night, so look out for signs that they are tired, and try to put them down at the same time every day.
Dress them comfortably, put them in the same place they sleep at night and make sure childminders or family to all buy into your routine so they know what to expect wherever they are.
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Look after yourself
As a parent the odd broken night is par for the course, but serious sleep deprivation is altogether more debilitating.
If you’re still being woken every couple of hours share the load by taking it in turns to do night feeds or nappy changes.
Or, try separate beds for the odd night - sleeping apart may not sound like much fun, but at least one of you will get a proper sleep.
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Feed them more by day
Newborn tummies are small, and a tiny baby will wake frequently for food. However, as they get used to eating more they will begin to sleep for longer periods.
If they are still waking up hungry at night, increase their feeds during the day, or try a ‘dream feed’ – feeding them in their sleep just before you go to bed.
It doesn’t work for everyone, but for that elusive night’s rest it could just be worth a try.
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