10 ways to give him the best oral sex ever
Whether you've performed oral sex on him once or dozens of times, you've never done it like this! It's time to ramp up your original moves by trying any (or all) of the following twists
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Get lewd with food
Watching a woman lick his penis is just about every guy's idea of heaven. Watching a woman lick cream/honey/yoghurt off his penis sends him to sexual nirvana. Smear it, drip it on and lick it off.
Food is such a versatile sex toy that the possibilities are endless. Whipped cream? Been there. Go all out with raspberry syrup, mangoes, berries and chocolate sauce, all at once if you fancy it! Most foods (with the exception of spicy ones) are safe to smear on the outside of the genitals, but be a little careful with oily foods if you're using condoms, since oil breaks down latex.
Do it somewhere daring
Getting oral sex while driving fast along a motorway in a convertible is a typical teenage boy's fantasy. But when you're younger, you tend not to think things like: 'If he's having an orgasm, he's not exactly paying attention to driving?, or 'This could be fun but could also kill us.'
Therefore, a lesser, but no less appealing, version of this is to casually reach across the car, unzip and expose him, then dispense a leisurely hand job that keeps him standing at attention but doesn't bring him to climax. Shift to using your mouth when you arrive at your destination.
Other places to go down on him that are daring but a little less so: in the bathroom at a party, on a balcony with his top half in view but you hidden, and up against the front door inside your apartment when he was previously on his way out the door to work.
Lick it like it's a lollipop
This one is often used in porn films because it allows him to see exactly what's going on. It's best done on your knees and, depending on your heights, he might need to stand on something (you need direct access to his testicles).
Start by lifting his penis to expose his testicles, then find the line that runs up between them (it's a tiny ridge that's often a darker colour). Find where this starts on the underside of his testicles, and that's where the long lick starts, continuing, very slowly, right to the tip of his penis. Repeat the full-length licks until you've done at least 10, then move into one of the other techniques.
Go all the way
Begin the oral sex by covering your teeth with your lips and then taking as much of him in your mouth as you can, in one wonderful movement. I'm not saying you have to 'deep throat.' Just let him see his penis disappear rapidly. Most women start by licking the head, then take him little by little inside. He won't be expecting a full-length shaft swallow right away, which is why it works so well to impress him!
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Use one hand to hold the base of the penis, and let saliva pool in your mouth (your tongue needs to keep him nice and slippery). Make a loose fist with your other hand and slide it up and down his penis, closing it when you reach the head.
Get the hand motion right first, then add your mouth, letting your hand act as an extension of it. Create a snug vacuum (but don't suck), then slide up and down, your hand following your mouth. If you're not the most coordinated person, hold your hand still at the base of the penis and simply move your mouth up and down.
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