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35 sex tips for girls (from men)

a man and a woman laughingWho better to get advice on how to please your man than from another man? From foreplay to full-on kinky, we've scoured the country for the best male 'sexperts' to provide their top tips on how to make your man go wild

By Alexander James, Al Needham, Matt Wyman and a selection of men from the Lets Talk About Sex message board

Also look at our better sex gallery and how to give your man the best oral sex ever. Why not even give tantric sex a try or try some new sex positions.

Phone sex

Sounds corny, but men are basic beasts. When he's least expecting it, phone him up and breath the sexiest moan down the receiver, saying: 'I was just thinking of you.' Then hang up. Make sure it's your man who answers though!
Alexander James

Stocking thriller

We love nylons and suspenders. If you wear them, go one better than most lovers. Put the knickers on over the suspender belt, instead of under. That way, they can come off, leaving those sexy stockings intact. Being inside our woman, while she's still wearing lingerie blows our mind.
Alexander James

Keep it trim

Shaved bits are a fantastic incentive to get your bloke orally inclined, because there's so much more to kiss, nuzzle and lick, but stubble needs to be avoided at all costs. Think about it, his face will be moving in an upward direction, against the grain, so avoid making him look like he's put his head into a box of feral cats, and keep it smooth!
Al Needham

Stimulate him visually

Play up to his eyes with a slow, seductive striptease, and watch him go weak at the knees. Don't worry about labels or expensive lingerie too much, by all means dress to thrill, but you can just as easily make his heart race by tantalisingly removing your work clothes.
Matt Wyman

Be uncomplicated

This doesn't mean you have to be easy. Men enjoy a challenge, just so long as they know where they stand. So, if you want him to do something to you, he'll rate you for being up front about it, and eager to oblige.
Matt Wyman

Surprise!

Send him for his shower, and while he's in there start masturbating. When he walks into the room he'll be in for a great surprise.
phideus

Surprise him again!

Arrange when he comes in from work that you are in your sexiest undies or whatever he likes. Let him take his coat off then ATTACK HIM!
Blondeboy

Also look at our better sex gallery and how to give your man the best oral sex ever. Why not even give tantric sex a try or try some new sex positions.

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I'm a 24 year old virgin woman but reading this is making me SO horny right now (virgins get horny too you know, lol). I wish I had a man to practice on, lol! XD "Anonymous replied 32 weeks 1 day ago Why does deepthroat always have to be included?!" I agree - I LOVE men but I wouldn't want a cock in my mouth, lol!
i say that not very sexy all woman at Independence of other man just only few letter ask fuck all other only ever had long term relationships & mind blowing sex with each. Even the most straight laced church going man likes excitement and a wild chic in bed. I can't even count the number of times I've heard men complain about girls that cry about being nice and "I'm not a porn star so don't treat me that way". BORING
Just wanted to share...I worship cock. I enjoy crazy, dirty, mind blowing sex. Deepthroating is pretty much a must in my book. This has nothing to do w/ porn or daddy issues. I'm educated & lead a very successful life. I do everything I do bc I get off on that. I love to see the man I love crazy w/pleasure. It's a huge turn on. Just bc I don't want to cuddle & wisper sweet nothings in each others ear isn't a bad thing. Newsflash...alot of sexy, beautiful, strong women worship cock! In fact I hate for my man to even say anything lovey dovey during sex. Play the bible thumping good girl if you want but don't act like there's something wrong w/ women that don't just lay there during sex. Maybe I think that's what's abnormal. I could NEVER enjoy boring sex. Because you don't feel comfortable doing something doesn't in anyway make it "abnormal". Men just tend to not like dull sex. To each his own.
Great advice! I personally don't subscribe to the whole "I'm a lady & should be treated as such" in the bedroom philosophy. I've only ever had long term relationships & mind blowing sex with each. Even the most straight laced church going man likes excitement and a wild chic in bed. I can't even count the number of times I've heard men complain about girls that cry about being nice and "I'm not a porn star so don't treat me that way". BORING. That's dull. Be a respectable women when your w/ his family or out w/ him...not in bed. If not, stop wasting time looking for ways to please a man. It's not rocket science.
BTW girls that are going off at this, its tips your obviously looking them up... this does not say anywhere that you have to do anything that is posted here... you don't have to deep throat to pleasure us guys, its something that is enjoyed, and for guys porn isn't real and women shouldn't be thought of like that, the ones in videos are paid and unless a girl ask to be treated like that or axtually enjoys it should not be expected to do that.
i totally agree! This is so true, if guys ever had to this as if the roles were reversed theyd be so reluctant but since were women we need to accustom to these nasty habits of the porn industry, Its rediculous, guys are never happy with just a blow job, they always need more nowadays, thanks to all these low class porn stars who make it look so great, it's sick..
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Yes porn can be some what um..inspirational..but that is down to whether your guy expects you to be a porn star or a partner. Ultimately it's what both parties are comfortable with though the article is about sex tips to please a man and deep throat is quite apparently something they generally enjoy. Not every man goes around demanding it!

Each to their own ;]

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Why does deepthroat always have to be included?! We're constantly bombared with images of this bulls**tt. I'm pretty sure any of the men i've been with wouldn't have done or wanted to do this if it were the other way around. It's awful and not something women should have to live up to. A 'moderate' search on google produced a image of a gaging deepthroater.....the world has gone nuts. I want sex to be enjoyable for BOTH parties. Not having to do something totally unnatural to feel i can satisfy someone. Porn has had a BIG influence over this. Girls pretending to worship cock and do anything for dollar is effecting us all normal people. Now if you can't or don't wanna do this you're inadequate. It's promoted as a good thing to have a man ramming it down your throat and that we enjoy this! Sick.