My eyelashes and eyebrows are blonde and my natural hair colour is auburn. I've tried black and brown mascara to define my lashes, but they just overwhelm me, like I have monster lashes. Do you have any suggestions?

Since your lashes are naturally pale, any colour at all is going to look startling at first, because it's so radically different from what you're accustomed to. You may want to experiment with softer, subtler shades. But more importantly, make sure you use a fine, almost delicate application. I've learned a light touch works best with paler hair and complexions (unless it's a vampy look you're going for). To follow are tips for an application that will give you definition and subtlety.

If your lashes don't curl naturally, press them with a lash curler. I'm always astounded by how a little crimping opens up and defines the eyes.

Swipe your mascara wand with a tissue to get most of the 'goo' off the brush, then, with just the trace that's left, delicately apply to your lashes.

Look for formulas that say 'tint' or 'glossy' on the label, as opposed to 'thickening' or 'lash building.'

Choose mascaras that feature fine brushes or comb applicators, which will help in giving a more delicate application.

Although they're extremely sharp and you have to be careful when using them, I'm addicted to those little metal lash separators to rake through lashes immediately after mascara application while lashes are still moist. Comb away from eyes in an upward and outward direction.

Experiment with shades such as taupe, aubergine, and light brown, which won't contrast as dramatically with fairer colourations like yours.

Try applying just to the tips of the lashes to start and then going over that with a clear mascara to diffuse the colour. Or dip your clear mascara wand into your coloured mascara tube for a more diluted tone.

In closing, remember: Aim for a feathery, fine enhancement, which will delicately heighten the look of the eyes, adding definition without overwhelming your face.

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Make-up dilemma: Pale Lashes