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Rape

Rape is a serious crime and a traumatic experience, the consequences of which can last for a very long time. Every woman reacts differently and it is not unusual for emotions to fluctuate from day to day. It can be difficult to talk about the attack to friends or family, so it’s important that victims of rape or sexual assault are shown support and understanding. Most women, over a period of time, do come to terms with what has happened and eventually regain control of their lives.

Feelings women experience

• Fright
• Guilt
• Powerlessness
• Shame
• Anger
• Depression
• Revenge
• Difficulty with eating and sleeping
• Poor concentration

Myths surrounding rape

• It is a myth that rape is always carried out by strangers. More often than not, someone known to the woman commits rape. This includes partners and friends.
• Regardless of who carries out the attack, it is never the woman’s fault.

Reporting the crime

• The decision to report a rape must always be left up to the woman.
• If you do not report it right away you can still do it at a later date.
• A woman police officer will be appointed to take the details. If the rape was recent you will undergo a medical examination. You will not be pushed to give a full statement until you are able to do so.
• The statement will be used as the main evidence if it goes to court.
• You will be assigned an officer to deal with your case.
• You should tell the police if you are worried that your attacker might return.
• If you are concerned for your safety you may be able to take an injunction against the attacker.
• You will be informed when someone is charged and whether they have been given bail or not.
• Evidence against them will be passed to the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS).
• They will decide if there is a case for prosecution.

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