Men's secret sex questions exposed

Ever wondered what men really want in bed? We've compiled a list of the secret questions most men have, and how you, as his sexy fairy godmother, can solve them for him...

Can I watch you?

The voyeur in a man is quite a strong aspect of his sexuality and what most men crave more than anything in bed is the ability to see what the action looks like, especially when the action includes you and your naked body.

So go on, turn on the lights (or light some candles for a more flattering look) and let him feast his eyes all over you. And if you let him watch the both of you mid-sex in a mirror, he'll be more grateful than you'll ever know!

Can you go on top tonight?

Part lazy, part voyeur but also part submissive - men love it when YOU take control and initiate sex . No man wants to burden the sole responsibility of love making (it's boring).

So why not up the ante by showing how much your desire him and treating him like you mean business? Forget all the passiveness books like The Rules teach you; he'll love your hands-on approach and your assertiveness. And being on top puts you in the bonus power seat of controlling the rhythm and depth necessary for your own climax.

Can we get a little vocal please?

When a man encourages or asks you to talk to him during sex , it's a sure sign he gets driven wild by the aural factor and wants to know how much you're enjoying his company.

Now you don't have to engage in porno talk, just a few sentences, and correctly placed moans should do the trick. The best approach is to openly whisper, breathily in his ear, exactly what you're going to do to him, and how.

He'll go crazy over the verbal feedback. Oh, and if you manage to mention his name and a few graphically naughty words too, you'll send him over the edge.