How to play with babies to pre-schoolers

Three year olds

Three year olds are starting to really get it. They have boundless energy and the world has taken on a new and magical aura as their imaginations go into overdrive. Simple objects become fascinating, magical and mysterious, and playtime gets more fun.

• Set up scavenger hunts in the garden. Arm your child with a magnifying glass so they can inspect all the creepy crawlies or child-sized butterfly net.
• Encourage their developing caring nature by giving them a watering can to take care of plants. Grow easy, quick response plants like watercress or put an avocado stone in water to watch it sprout.
• Enhance fine motor skills by encouraging your three year old to do up their own buttons, zips and clasps, using toys specifically designed to develop these skills.

Four year olds

By this age your child is becoming pretty impressed with their own abilities as a human being. They want to be the best at everything and are ready for more interesting and challenging play time/

• Be specific about praise. Just saying 'good job' will not be as motivating as saying 'what a great picture you drew, I particularly like the trees!' This more specific reward will boost their confidence far more.
• When shopping, play games to reduce boredom such as 'find it first'. Tell them what item you are looking for and challenge them to find it before you do.
• Get them to start exercising, join them up to a junior athletics club, gym lessons or dancing. Plus, keep them (and yourself) active by opting for the steps over the lift, and walking to the shops instead of taking the car.

Remember, play is fun for both kids and parents. The more you get into it, the more you will enjoy it.

Useful resource:

The Secret of Play by Ann Pleshette Murphy. Available from Dorling Kindersley priced £12.99

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