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Bullying stories

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Taking education home
I was badly bullied in secondary school. I was bullied verbally and physically by a lot of kids, and even a few of the teachers. It got so bad that in the second and third year I was probably off 'ill' as often as I was there. I went to another school about halfway through year nine, where I managed to stay for a couple of months (my mother had more to do with my staying than I did). I was miserable there, too; but it was more to do with the teaching and philosophy than the other students (although there was some bullying). Finally, I was taken out of school. I should be going into my 10th year in September, but I'm now home-educated, and it's the best thing that could have happened.

Parenting courses?
My middle child, who is quiet and sensitive, has been bullied physically and verbally throughout junior school. The school took tough action on each occasion, and I felt they were doing all they could to protect him. But the senior school in our catchment area has a 'well-earned reputation' for not dealing with bullying. They have no effective methods of disciplining the perpetrators and no methods of protecting victims, and I was naturally reluctant to send my son there. So, when my appeal failed to get him into a different senior school, I chose to home-educate. It was the best decision I could have made - my son has gone from being behind academically, to being ahead of his peers. Schools need to have more effective strategies for dealing with bullies, they must be allowed to exclude pupils that do not respond to other methods. The Government needs to back schools and not protect the bully by keeping them in mainstream schools. Parents of bullies could be 'requested' to attend courses - often children who are poorly disciplined at home will be unruly in school. Children need boundaries to teach them to behave.



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