Breastfeeding through pregnancy
I am still breastfeeding my baby, and we're thinking about trying for another one. We would like to have our children fairly close together. Is it possible to continue breastfeeding when pregnant?
If you do decide you want to have a baby now and find it difficult to get pregnant, I would recommend beginning to cut back the night-time feeds first. It can really help fertility to return when there is one long eight-hour period without breast stimulation each day.
Most likely, by the time you get pregnant, your daughter will be spending less time feeding. Even if she is still breastfeeding, there is a good chance she will wean on her own during the first four months of your pregnancy, though I can't say that this is something you should count on. (About 40 per cent of babies do wean on their own during pregnancy.)
Many mothers, across all cultures, breastfeed during pregnancy. An excellent diet is always important during pregnancy, and I would recommend paying special attention to your nutritional requirements while pregnant and breastfeeding. Eat a variety of healthy foods, and don't just rely on nutritional supplements.
If your toddler is still breastfeeding when your new baby is born, allow your new baby to feed first. Your older child may feel jealous when the new baby feeds. This is normal. Tandem breastfeeding can be stressful, and is not for everyone. Be sure to ask for the help you need, once your new baby is born. Your partner may be thrilled to begin taking a much more active role with your older child, while you are busy with the new baby.
Trust your body. There's a good chance that if your body isn't able to maintain a pregnancy, you won't be able to get pregnant yet. Good luck.