Overcoming isolation
Finding friends
Despite all the negative press that young mums get, there is support out there. Mums of all ages need help and understanding because parenthood is one of the most important and demanding roles we can ever take on. However, if you're feeling a bit overwhelmed by your responsibilities it can really help to talk to someone who's in the same situation as you. Meeting other mums and their babies through playgroups is an ideal way to mix with others (and keep hold of your sanity!), so ask your midwife, health visitor or doctor or check at your local health clinic for details on groups specifically any aimed at teenage mums. You might even think of starting up your own group in a local hall or health centre.
Teenage mums can also find support on the Internet. If you want to chat to others in the same situation as you, try the iVillage message board Teenage Mums or visitwww.smilechild.co.uk for loads of links to parenting and teen parenting sites. If you're struggling financially or you need to know what your rights are, go to www.connexions.gov.uk, a site specifically aimed at teenagers that explains in normal language all you need to know about your entitlements as a teen mum.
Never alone
According to government statistics, Britain now has 56,000 teenage mums, 8,000 of whom are under 16. So if you're one of that number but feel as if you're the only one juggling GCSEs with junior in tow, then remember that there are lots of other girls in the same situation. Life with a baby in the house isn't always easy and teen mums can have it tougher than most, but knowing that the support is out there will help.
Get more help
Meet-a-Mum Association
58 Malden Avenue
South Norwood
London SE25 4HS
Tel: 020 8656 7318
Gingerbread (for single parents)
49 Wellington Street
London WC2B 7BN
Tel:020 7240 0953
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