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Is it safe to make love?

by Peg Plumbo

question
My wife is newly pregnant. We have enjoyed a good sex life and do not want pregnancy to change this. Is it safe to continue making love?

answer
It is safe for most couples to continue making love throughout pregnancy. Physiologically, the increased blood flow to the pelvis, uterus, vagina and clitoris congests the pelvis a bit and can increase a woman's pleasure, causing more intense orgasms. It can also cause a heightened libido.

If your partner is uncomfortable, you may wish to try alternative pleasuring activities, without actual penetration - at least for a while. Positions that may be more comfortable are lying on your side or the woman on top. Manual or oral stimulation is fine during pregnancy.

Try to take the time to be alone, without fear of interruption. A relaxing bath and massage can help you to enjoy each other.

Although orgasm and breast stimulation can cause the uterus to contract, this will not cause miscarriage. A bit of cramping after intercourse is normal. Of course, if cramping continues or if it is associated with any spotting, you should see your doctor right away.

Intercourse would be contraindicated if there was a risk of premature labour or any history of bleeding after the first trimester. Check with your doctor.

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