Miscarriage. Why did it happen to me?

Some miscarriages are ‘complete’ and no surgery is needed. In other cases a small operation is necessary to empty the womb and prevent infection. This is done under general anaesthetic with no cutting or stitching.

You may have some cramping pains and bleeding for up to two weeks. It is better not to have sexual intercourse until any discharge has stopped. You should have your next period between four to six weeks after the miscarriage. It may be heavier than normal.

If you miscarried late in pregnancy, your breasts may stay larger and leak milk for several days.

Returning to normal

You may feel physically low for at least a week, perhaps longer. Some women find it helps to return to work when they have recovered, to have the support of friends and colleagues. Others find it difficult to face people and harder still to concentrate on work.

After one miscarriage, most women will go on to have a normal pregnancy. Statistics indicate that even after several miscarriages, you still have a good chance of having a baby. The most important thing is to give yourselves the chance to recover emotionally. Doctors usually advise waiting until you have had one period before you try to conceive again.

When they get pregnant, many women feel anxious about miscarrying again. Try to take the pregnancy one day or one week at a time. Sharing your fears with someone else can help. The Miscarriage Association run support groups in different parts of the country with people who have been through similar experiences.

For more information contact:

The Miscarriage Association,
C/O Clayton Hospital, Northgate, Wakefield WF1 3JS.
Tel 01924 200799.