Some people just aren't cut out for the classic white wedding. My husband, for example, was eager to tie the knot; he just wasn't up for all the fuss of a formal ceremony

'All those people get together for a few hours in a hotel and only talk to the people at their table,' he said. 'I like the idea of getting everyone together in Jamaica, where they can really get to know each other.'

If you opt for an island wedding as we did, you'll find you can create a phenomenal event for a fraction of what you would pay at home. Plus, getting married overseas can be a good way to slim down that swelling guest list.

Destination weddings, as they have been dubbed in the industry, are getting more and more popular.

With more than 150 miles of beaches, six dramatic mountain ranges and hundreds of rivers, the gorgeous island of Jamaica provides a romantic backdrop for whatever style wedding you have in mind.

Whether you are thinking black tie or bikinis, the 'all-inclusives' have perfected the art of nuptials. Prices can include everything from rooms, meals and drinks to unlimited water sports, and vary depending on the property and the season.

Package deals can save you omeny but be warned that 'your' day might be shared with other couples. Before booking you may want to ask how many weddings are planned during your stay.

If you are looking for a more intimate experience, consider doing it yourself at a smaller property where prices are lower and the event more personalised.

Another option is to rent privately owned villas for your guests.

If you are planning to have your ceremony at a private property, you may want to ask your guests to each pack a bottle of champagne to toast the newlyweds. We found that while rum and Red Stripe were abundant and inexpensive in Jamaica, fine wines were hard to come by and outrageously overpriced.

Whether going to Jamaica or any foreign country, check the requirements well in advance. In Jamaica, you'll need a certified copy of both your birth certificates, which must include your father's names, and, if either of you is younger than 21, written consent from a parent. Most wedding coordinators want documents at least a month in advance.

For details, call the Tourist Board of the island you are planning to visit.