| Shape Up advice for first timers
If you're signing up for the Shape Up Challenge, here are some helpful tips from 'veterans' to get you off to a flying start Positive thinking You must also talk to yourself in a positive way. No 'I hope' or 'maybe I can' - just 'I can do this. I AM doing this.' Remember, only you make the choice to put that food in your mouth. You have to ask yourself what you want: to be slimmer and happier or eat cake, crisps and sweets and then hate yourself for it. You also have to stop seeing the Challenge as a 'diet'. If you want to lose weight and maintain weight loss after your diet, then you have to combine sensible eating and exercise for life. There is no point starting a diet/healthy eating plan if you think it is just for a number of weeks or until you reach your target weight. One step at a time I find it helps to remember that eating one unhealthy thing doesn't mean your healthy eating plan is completely blown. If you bear this in mind, it stops the 'on a diet/off a diet' mentality that can send your eating spiralling out of control. Understanding this has quite simply changed my life. I will be eating a healthy diet until I die, and I know I'll get to my ideal weight along the way. I also try not to use the words good, bad, naughty or diet. Don't get despondent if one week you don't lose any weight, since a) sometimes it takes your body time to react to the changes you've made in your diet and exercise, and b) even if the scales don't change, you may well have lost inches. Instead, focus on how well you have done and don't let the scales control you. Get support Secondly, tell the board that you're feeling down and, I promise, you won't be down for long. Someone is sure to come up with something to make you think about how much you have gained from the programme. Thirdly, don't forget the tape measure. I have been pleasantly surprised on the weeks when I haven't lost the pounds to find that I have lost inches. It may be as small as ¼ inch, but it's a loss all the same. Lastly, remember to do exercise that you enjoy and you will find yourself looking forward to your workout. I know I do, and I never thought I'd be saying that. Ten weeks ago, I went through the rollercoaster emotions of being fat. I had gotten to the point of really hating myself - my body, my weight, just about everything. It doesn't help that we live in Blackpool, the haven for every skinny woman in the UK. So, I stopped feeling sorry for myself and I found the Shape Up Challenge. More importantly, I found the Shape Up message board. I find myself thinking of the people on the boards constantly. You really do end up 'carrying the board with you'. I had a crisis in the supermarket, and planned to buy wonderfully fattening foods to binge on. But when I came to it, I suddenly thought of the board and how I'd confess my 'sins'. I thought of all the love and support I would receive from my fellow dieters. I decided I couldn't do it. I wanted to, but I couldn't let them down. So, I binged on healthy food instead, had around 600 calories for tea and hated every minute of it. Until I'd calmed down and thought about it, that is. And that's the power of the board, if of course you are prepared to make the true commitment to yourself to get healthier. You can make some really good friends on the board too. All I can say after 10 weeks and losing two stone, is that I'm so glad for the Web, for iVillage, and for all the members of the Shape Up Challenge. Be forgiving Products I lost three pounds overnight the first time I did this and every month now if I do this for a couple of nights just before my period and I don't put on weight, whereas before I would always put on two pounds. |