Teen talk - the lowdown

Teenagers can be an enigma at the best of times but when it comes to language they can be downright baffling. So, if you feel in the dark when talking to your teen, take a look at our teen talk guide for a bit of enlightenment

Why do teens use slang?

As much as people like to harp on about the golden days of their youth, when everyone wrote perfect prose and spoke the Queen's English, the truth is that slang has been around for centuries and although today's teens use words most of us don't understand, they're no different from any other generation.

One of the reasons teenagers use slang is as a way of rebelling against authority, but it's also used as a way of identifying with each other and to differentiate themselves from people who aren't part of the 'group'. Teenagers use slang as a way of ensuring social inclusion among their friends, showing that they are part of the 'in' crowd and, crucially, as a way of communicating between themselves without their parents or teachers understanding.

Where does it come from?

If you think back to when you were a teenager you'll probably remember words and phrases that you and your friends used, and each generation has its own influences, but popular culture plays a large part in the introduction of new slang. In the '50s the birth of rock 'n' roll, the Beat Generation and the increasing influence of American culture in films, TV and music saw the introduction or popularisation of phrases like 'see you later alligator', 'cool', 'hip' and 'nerd'.

In the swinging '60s it was the hippies, the protest generation, the emerging drug culture and the cool cats of Carnaby Street. 'Groovy', 'peace', 'far out', 'psychedelic', 'dig', 'cat' and 'dude' were among the more popular words of the time.

In the '70s funk, punk, glam rock and disco all influenced slang, phrases like 'boogie', 'funky', 'bad', 'bitchin', 'blood', 'slammin', 'wicked', and 'dope'.

In the '80s the words and phrases from American hip-hop culture started to infiltrate British youth language, many of which can still be heard today, with words like 'biatch', 'da' as in 'he's da man', 'diss', 'booty', 'bling' and 'playa'. Of course there are plenty of slang words used by British teens (and adults for that matter) that come from within our own culture such as, 'hoodie', 'chav' and 'asbo'.

Today, the internet and texting has an impact on the way teenagers speak and write and there has been an emergence of abbreviated words that infuriate teachers and have most adults scratching their heads. 'Book' now means 'cool', because if you type 'cool' in predictive text it first brings up 'book' and there are a multitude of abbreviations such as LOL (laugh out loud) and BRB (be right back) that are common place on Instant Messenger and e-mails - who said teens were lazy!

The comforting thought for adults is that at some point their teenager will grow up and grow out of much of the slang they use today and of course one day they'll have their own teens and they too will find themselves talking to their kids wondering what on earth they're going on about. Some might call it poetic justice — LOL;)

Find out the words every parent should know on the next page...

Common words to look out for:

POS
POS stands for Parents Over Shoulder. It's an emergency code when using Instant Messenger to alert their friends not to say anything incriminating in case their parents see. Now you know!

What's an emo?
The quick answer is that emos are modern day Goths — emo stands for emotional — same dark clothes, same gloomy outlook, different name.

Am I mouldie?
If your teen has called you a 'mouldie' it's not because you're sprouting green mould — well hopefully not anyway — it's because mouldie is slang for parents.

Mouldie no-nos
So you think you can get on the level with your teen and their friends by talking the talk with them? Think again. There's nothing more embarrassing than parents trying to act like their kids. If you start talking like your teens, or dressing like them for that matter, then it's time to rethink your strategy. They will respect you much more if you act your age, and if you disagree then just picture Edina Monsoon from Absolutely Fabulous or Richard Madeley dressed up as Ali G. Cringe! Nuff said.

Mouldie slang
Why should teens have all the fun, how about inventing some of your own slang for when you're talking to your friends? Here are some to get you started:

  • Mankies = teenagers — as in they're a bit pongy and so is their room
  • TDMM = teens driving me mad — good for texting or Messenger
  • Slavies = as in slave driver; 'my teens are such slavies, they expect me to do everything!'
  • Hormies = a hormonal teenager who is moody and unresponsive for no apparent reason

More words to listen out for:

  • Allie=Isn't it
  • Book=Cool
  • Bless=Bye also used like this: 'stay blessed'
  • Blood=Friend
  • Boyed off=Somebody took the Mickey out of you or completely blanked you
  • Blates=Blatently
  • Braaap=Great or perfect
  • Buff=A person who's hot, sexy
  • Butters=Ugly
  • CBA=Can't be arsed
  • Cool=Hello or bye
  • Cringe=Embarrassing
  • Dizzy=Are you being serious or are you being stupid?
  • Don't get it twisted=Don't get confused
  • Dry=Rubbish/boring
  • Emo=A modern day goth
  • Fo shizzle=For sure
  • Innit=A short version of 'isn't it'
  • Laters=Bye
  • LOL=Laugh out loud
  • Minger=Ugly
  • Minging=Ugly/nasty/horrible
  • Mouldies=Parents
  • Nang=Cool
  • OMG=Oh My God
  • Phat=Great/wicked/cool
  • Safe=Thank you, or it can also be used as 'bye'
  • She's got a back=She's got a nice bum
  • She's fire allie=She's sexy isn't she
  • Soz=Sorry
  • Try a ting=Trying something
  • U get me=Do you understand
  • Wa blow=Hello