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Love vs football: a match made in hell?

by Susan Quilliam
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Take time out
If you really, truly, can't bear to get involved, then the second strategy is to stay strictly uninvolved. Use the fact that your partner is preoccupied and spend some time on your own interests and hobbies. Check the match schedules and then organise a parallel timetable for yourself.

So he's watching the footie almost everyday? That means you can take time out with your friends or enjoy a relaxing time pampering yourself at home.

But when he is engrossed, simply pull out your 'here's one I prepared earlier' list of things you've wanted to do for ages but haven't had time - and get going. Indulge yourself, pursue your own interests, catch up with things you always meant to do.

Of course, if your partner's lack of attention to you is year-round, then you have a relationship problem that needs more than patience and an interest in Becks' pecs - so visit www.relate.org.uk and organise some counselling. But if normally your relationship is fine, then don't make the championship a power struggle. Take responsibility for your own time and enjoy it.



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