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I don't want to be 'the other woman'
Dear Sally Ann,
I had a wonderful relationship with a man for six months until he went back to his ex for the sake of the child. He says he is in love with me, but has to give it one last go. I am absolutely devastated as I still feel he is 'the one'. We have continued to have sex since he has gone back to his family, but I want to be more than 'the other woman'. I want him back, but do you think maybe I am flogging a dead horse?
Your only possible chance of getting this man back is to stop sleeping with him. I know it is tempting to keep the connection going in this way (you probably think that anything is better than nothing), but the only foolproof method to determine whether someone misses you or not is to deprive them of all contact. No sex, no phone calls, no illicit meetings, no nothing.
If you do as I say, this man will be back in three weeks. But he may continue to vacillate between all these women whose undivided attention he now has. How wonderful was your relationship with him? Six months is a long time for you to invest in someone who suddenly decides to dump you and start again with an ex-partner. Or was he always involved with her? It's not a dead horse necessarily, but it's a bit lame.
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