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The highs and lows of holiday romance

by Susan Quilliam
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2. Sizzling sex - or total disaster?
Holiday sex can be brilliant. The excitement of being on holiday, combined with sun, bareflesh and a few drinks can put even the most demure person in the mood for sex.

The problem is that holiday sex can get out of control. Women often report getting carried away with the moment and having sex with a stranger. Once the sun comes up, all they're left with is guilt and regrets.

The solution:
  • Holiday romances are often intense - you can feel that if you don't have sex tonight, he won't be around in the morning. But, however tempted, try not to jump into bed without thinking your decision through

  • If you feel rushed into intimacy, slow everything down. Arrange to see him at public events rather than alone on a moonlit beach. And if you're drinking, cut back the booze for a night or two - to stop you making a decision you'll regret

  • If you begin making love and it isn't going well, doesn't feel right, or you feel pressured to continue, stop. Offer cuddles and kisses, and insist on returning to a public place, out of temptation's way

  • Don't forget to use condoms, or you may end up with more holiday souvenirs than you bargained for. Sexually transmitted infections are on the rise and, if you're having sex, it's vital to take precautions.

    3. Keep your emotions in check
    Emotions run high on holiday and, if you're embroiled in a romance, you may quickly feel very close to your partner. Passion can over-heat and intense intimacy may suddenly turn to conflict.

    Remember, roller coasters go down as well as up. Anger and resentments can flare up over a course of a few hours, leaving you feeling disillusioned and even abandoned.


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