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To call or not to call?

by Sally Ann Lasson

question
I have liked this guy for months and the other day he asked me out. We had a fantastic night together - watching films, eating pizza, talking until five in the morning and making love. Since then, I've sent him text messages and phoned him, but he just puts me off and makes excuses to not see me. The night we spent together he said that he had liked me for ages too - so what's his problem? Should I call him again or put it down to experience?
Nicky

answer
In the end, you always have to leave it up to the other person to make up their own mind if they want to see you or not. You can't make this man go out with you. He's given you the brush off. He probably did like you and his 'problem' is simply that he doesn't like you as much as you like him. It's very disappointing, of course, but you have to pick yourself up and start all over again. Be brave and try to resist the urge to call him.
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