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Does he just want my body?

by Sherry Amatenstein

question
Dear Sherry
How do I know if my boyfriend of four months is with me mainly for the sex?
Lynn


answer
Dear Lynn
Let me count the ways to tell whether he's with you for sex or love.
First, does he take you out on the town or just into bed? A man who really cares about a woman wants to court her, to share special experiences that don't just end with post-coital cigarettes. A man who truly cares about a woman is interested in hearing about her day, and will come round with Lemsips and tissues when she has a cold instead of keeping his distance because he 'can't afford to get ill'. A man who truly cares about a woman wants to meet all her friends, and family and for her to meet all the important people in his life.
Lastly, if he agrees to escort you to a family wedding, you know he's your man.
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