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Warning: don't date these men!

When dating online, you'll probably end up sifting through a lot of dodgy profiles before you find your perfect match. We've saved you the ground work and identified six toxic types you'll meet on the web dating scene

The serial online dating addict

For the serial online dater (let's call him S.O.D.), the novelty of the new date never wears off. You may think he's going out with you, but he will never stop hunting for other women online. He'll never love you as much as he loves the thrill of the online chase.

How to spot him
He's probably been an active member of a dating site for many months, or even years. He seems to be online all the time. His photo is handsome and he's open-minded about the kind of woman he wants. It's not that he can't get a date, it's that he can't get enough.

Sadly, the only real way to tell an S.O.D. is once you're going out with him. A month or two in, he seems smitten. But he hasn't taken his profile down, and he's still logging in. You have to confront him, tell him it's you or the website. A man who wants to keep you hanging on while he keeps his options open isn't man enough for you.

The self-esteem leech

Nothing you do is ever good enough for this control freak. You spend hours making him a mix CD of your favourite songs, and he criticises your taste. You slave in the kitchen over a three-course meal, and he sneers at it like a restaurant critic. Dare to gain a couple of pounds, and you'll get a lecture about carbs.

Do not give him the time of day. He demands perfection for you while failing to notice his own faults, and he expects you to share all his tastes rather than having a mind of your own.

How to spot him
A self-esteem leech is not easy to spot, because when he's chasing you he's devastatingly charming. It's only once you're 'his woman' that he'll start to chip away at your confidence.

But once you've found the strength to dump him, you will quickly realise that you're better off without him.

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