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Cyber-romance goes off-line
Dear Sally-Ann
I've met this man on the Internet and he seemed great. We have sent text messages and spoken on the phone. He wanted me to come and see him so we arranged a place and date to meet. The thing is, I can't wait that long. I have sent more texts saying this and he hasn't replied. I'm worried now that he won't turn up at all - what should I do?
Dear Gina
Hold fire. Stop texting this man as if you were the star in a black and white 50s melodrama and your life depended on speaking to him immediately. Don't call him unless he calls you. Silence is golden. If you do ever meet him make sure it is in a public place and don't go home with him. There are plenty of nutters out there. And for goodness sake calm down. You will terrify any man who is not deranged with your frantic yearning. Men are attracted to women who are competent and self-contained and have a life. Buy a copy of The Rules and stick to them as if your life depended on it.
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