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The power of positive thought
Three years later, I have changed in many subtle ways. I make the point of telling my family and friends that I love them and giving them a hug when I feel like it instead of holding back. When a stranger smiles at me I smile back or say hi instead of looking away. The little things no longer niggle me (well, they do occasionally but hey, Im only human). Instead Ive learned to put life into perspective, to just shrug my shoulders and walk away. If I feel like going away somewhere or doing something different, I no longer procrastinate about it for weeks, I just go ahead and do it. If I am having a tough day, then I make a point of telling myself before I go to sleep that tomorrow will be better. You know what it always is. It is amazing, the power that positive thought can have over the other aspects of everyday life.
A couple of weeks ago I was having a bad day. A friend asked me what was wrong and I told her that I wished for once that I could wake up one morning and not be ill, not have those nagging fears in the back of my mind every time I felt a twinge in a muscle or nerve. She asked me how I coped with my illness and how I always kept so positive. When I told her, she thought for a minute and then said she was going to follow my example and put into practice in her own life everything I had said. She said it should be an example of how to go through life regardless of anyones situation.
The more I thought about it, the more correct I realised she was. It took a serious illness and some pretty obnoxious behaviour to make me realise what was important in life, but in reality the changes I made are changes that any one of you could make at any time. Believe me it works, I know.
Theres still a lot I want to achieve. I still have those unfinished projects, but I will finish them sometime honestly. I still havent got round to finding my dream career, but I am on my way there. And I still dont have that husband and kids, but theyll come along in time. Oh, and I still harbour ambitions to become that abseiling granny! Maybe one day.
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