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Reinvent yourself week three
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Firstly I challenged her overall perspective by pointing out all the evidence to disprove her position. I showed her examples of gorgeous women over 39 who had no problem attracting great men, often a lot younger. I flagged up Jerry Hall who, at 46, turned down a proposal of marriage from her millionaire lover - ten years her junior, Joan Collins and her husband, 68 to his 37, and on and on until her perspective shifted.
Then we tackled her personal thoughts and beliefs. I pointed out situations and examples that demonstrated that she was actually downright captivating to men. It took more than one session to redirect her and change her perspective, thoughts and reality. She was on course for a really disappointing personal life. As soon as she really made the shift, she began to attract the attention of fabulous guys who saw the wonderful woman she really was. Now she's enjoying the attention. Inevitably, soon enough, someone really special will show up.
Thought for the week
'I take total responsibility for creating an exciting future. My life is full of wonderful opportunities and surprises.'
Now go to Reinvent Yourself week four
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Firstly I challenged her overall perspective by pointing out all the evidence to disprove her position. I showed her examples of gorgeous women over 39 who had no problem attracting great men, often a lot younger. I flagged up Jerry Hall who, at 46, turned down a proposal of marriage from her millionaire lover - ten years her junior, Joan Collins and her husband, 68 to his 37, and on and on until her perspective shifted.
Then we tackled her personal thoughts and beliefs. I pointed out situations and examples that demonstrated that she was actually downright captivating to men. It took more than one session to redirect her and change her perspective, thoughts and reality. She was on course for a really disappointing personal life. As soon as she really made the shift, she began to attract the attention of fabulous guys who saw the wonderful woman she really was. Now she's enjoying the attention. Inevitably, soon enough, someone really special will show up.
Thought for the week
'I take total responsibility for creating an exciting future. My life is full of wonderful opportunities and surprises.'
Now go to Reinvent Yourself week four
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