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Does he still love his ex?
I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two months; he's my best friend's ex. She doesn't have a problem with this - in fact, she's happy for us - but I'm worried he still has feelings for her. He's called me the wrong name a couple of times and she's said his name whilst having sex with her new boyfriend. He's sworn to me that he has no feelings for her and that he can't stand to be in the same room as her. Am I just being paranoid? I dreamt that I caught them together in my house - when I woke up, I couldn't breathe.
But what is this emotion? Is it love? Is it regret for what could have been? Or is it simply worry, on everyone's side? You're worried that he still cares for her. My bet is that he's worried that you suspect him of still caring for her. And she is probably worried that you think she's still out to get him back.
The best thing you can do here is stop worrying. I am not promising you that everything is fine. I am saying that if you can relax and stop being so insecure, it will slowly become clear to you what is really happening here. You can then start building your relationship with your boyfriend rather than wobbling about it every single day. And, most likely, if you can build your relationship, you'll find that your boyfriend really loves you and not your best friend.
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