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Blushing brides have their say

by Nicola Davenport
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Not sure whether to have your say or not? Four tips from the brides

  • Keep it short and sweet. Rachel advises: 'There are going to be probably three other people speaking, and you don't want your guests to get bored. Also, there will be people there who don't know you so well and wouldn't want to know all the nitty-gritty of your life.'

  • Decide in advance what you are going to say. A drunken ramble is not going to impress the guests or look great on your wedding video. Prepare your speech properly in advance to avoid embarrassing yourself.

  • Do use a microphone if it is offered. Even a small room will suffer from poor acoustics once it is full of people. 'My husband refused to use the microphone at first and no one could hear him', says Julia. 'I made sure I spoke slowly and clearly, and played the audience by making sure I paused when they were laughing. I loved my time in the spotlight.'

  • Don't beat yourself up about it. Julia advises: 'I would recommend other brides to make a speech, provided they feel comfortable about it. If you're racked with nerves about it, then don't bother. There are so many things to worry about when you're getting married that you really don't need another thing to worry about.'

    Want to make a speech but not sure what to say? Use this checklist to make sure you are word-perfect before opening your mouth:

    • Thank-yous to people who have given you special support: bridesmaids, mother, father, close friends
    • Individual message for your mother-in-law (this will win you many brownie points)
    • Praise for the cake-maker, florist, dress designer
    • Welcome and thanks for personal friends who have travelled a long way
    • Anecdotes about the best man
    • Behind-the-scenes stories about wedding preparations
    • Insight into how you met the groom, the wedding proposal
    • Special message for the groom


    Are you planning your wedding? Talk to other iVillage brides-to-be on The Wedding Planner


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