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Weekends away: the last resort?

by Fiona Gibson
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But the reality is often different:

  • Frankly, focusing totally on each other can be terrifying. Without the distractions of work and social life, what on earth will you talk about?

  • Going away can be a hassle. Tempers can fray. Who hasn't blamed each other for getting lost? Who has felt cross at having to do all the ordering in schoolgirl French/Italian?

  • You may feel like you must have non-stop sex to make full use of your hideously pricey hotel room. Nothing dampens libido surer than the niggling feeling that you should be doing it.

    Making it work
    A weekend away isn't a magic pill to cure all relationship ills. But it can help. Last year, my partner and I were suffering 'lack of fun' syndrome, which two nights in Paris helped to fix. We did little more than lounge at pavement cafes, but we did dress nicely, kiss in public, and held hands for the first time in years.

    On the downside, a mini-break can make you realise it's over - for good. Maria, 30, booked a New Year trip to Vienna as a last-ditch attempt to salvage her relationship: 'My partner showed no interest in the art or architecture, which brought home how very different we were. In fact he spent two days grumbling that a coffee and cake cost £6.50.'

    With the right man, however, a weekend away can be a passport to a closer relationship.



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