Sexual Dilemmas Features

He wants a threesome

One girl decides whether to play to her partner's fantasy

Is there any realism in porn films?

I?ve watched porn films to try and learn new sexual techniques, but they?ve made me feel even more inadequate

Is three a crowd?

My husband and I have had several threesomes but I am having trouble with my emotions

iVillage Voices - real life stories

Feeling stuck or unsure which way to go? Why not get a variety of opinions on a subject to see the bigger picture. Get topical and informative advice here from members of iVillage on a range of topics from relationships to financial issues

Out of order: your guy's performance problems

As a woman whose job involves writing about, analysing and researching sex, some men find me intimidating. More specifically it's their penises that seem to find me intimidating

Porn: fantasy or filth?

I found a disgusting file of porn on my partner?s computer and deleted it

Relate talks about mismatched sex drives

Relate Counsellor, Julia Cole, talks to iVillage men and women about the issues surrounding mismatched sex drives in relationships, and how to boost desir

Sexual synchrony - dealing with different libidos

How to cope if he wants sex all the time and you don'

Stimulating sex at 50 plus!

Many men and women find that the ageing process affects their sexual response. Here are some hints and tips on how to have richer and more satisfying sex in your golden year

Wet during sex

During lovemaking I get really wet - so wet that I can't feel anything. Can you suggest how I can rectify this problem?