Reinvent your sex life in just one weekend

Hold the necklace between two hands, with most of the chain hanging down in a loop, and trail this upwards from feet to neck along his back and down again. The effect is subtle but deliciously arousing. Try kissing and licking every part of each other, perhaps even challenging your partner to find a part of you he has never kissed before. If you have a vibrator, experiment with using it in different ways on each other. Get him to stroke you on and around your clitoris, while you gently massage the vibe under his testicles or around the head of his penis; producing enjoyable sensations for him, as well for you!

Play some games
Now that you're both feeling more confident about lovemaking, you can start using these techniques throughout the rest of your weekend together. Try making a 'love pact' where you both agree not to try intercourse until you have both had at least 45 minutes of touching, caressing, massaging or intimate arousal. Ban intercourse altogether, instead experiment with stroking or rubbing one another to orgasm.

Play the 'sex bingo' game. First, make independent lists of all the sexual activities you really enjoy. Once you have your lists, cut them up, fold them, put them in a bowl, and give them a good mix. Next, take turns to pick out a choice. You then have to do the activity for a specified amount of time, say ten minutes, or just carry on until you feel you want to stop. Apart from anything else, this is often quite funny, and should introduce a light heartedness to your sex play, which is the cornerstone to fantastic sex!

The object of your weekend is to find some safe time to play together. Remember that you can't get things wrong, you are with your best friend and no-one is judging you - so you can be as wild as you like. Your weekend should reawaken some old feelings as well as introduce new ideas. Just go for it!