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Be incredible in bed

Fantastic foreplay, tempting tongue work, new positions and deeper orgasms - kick-start your sex life so that it's not just good, but great

The secret of incredible sex is to start again from scratch. If your sex life is stuck in a rut, break your sexual fatigue by throwing out all your preconceptions, banishing bad bedroom habits and learning how to make love again. Talk about it, play with it, experiment with sex to find out what you now like, as opposed to what made you tick when you first got together. And keep the passion alive by adding in new excitements and sexual surprises that may seem a bit wild but will get your juices flowing.

Find fulfilling foreplay

• First try this Tantric sex tip for getting physically and emotionally in synchrony. Sit opposite each other, very close, as if you were about to kiss. As one of you breathes out, the other breathes in, so you inhale each other's breath.
  
  
• Then swap dirty dreams. Ask him to say out loud a sentence of his sexual fantasy and then you say the next sentence. Move the story on one sentence at a time - and as you get to the physical bits, act out what you're describing.
  
  
• Now take it in turns to blindfold each other for, perhaps, fifteen minutes. During that time, the one who isn't blindfolded surprises the other, perhaps by feeding them, touching them, licking them. No nasty shocks though - make it all gentle and loving.
  
  
• Cuddled up close, then masturbate in front of each other. This'll not only be a turn on - it'll also teach both of you about what you really like. If you feel shy, do it in the dark, with your hand over his as he plays, or his over yours as you do. This way reduces potential embarrassment, but you still learn about each other.

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