Sizzling Sex cover Life coach, sex advisor and agony aunt Dr Pam Spurr has just written a brand new book: Sizzling Sex: The Sex Doctor's 250 Hottest Tips, Tricks and Techniques (J R Books £7.99). So get ready, because she gives us her top tips to make your sex life sizzle!

People often complain to me that they're fed up with the same old tried and tested sex positions and end up in a boring sex routine for fear of trying something new. Their reasoning being; 'why risk trying something new when you know what works?' Because doing the same thing in the same position is boring!

Coital Alignment Bliss (CAT)

The CAT or coital alignment technique is a fantastic position to use particularly if you find it difficult to reach orgasm. Although you can either be on the top or bottom in the CAT, most women report to me that they prefer being on top.

What you do is 'shimmy' up an inch or so once he's inside you so that you can "grind" your clitoris against his pubic bone. You can either have your legs in-between his or outside of his. The beauty of this position is that you can control the pressure and friction and get exactly the clitoral stimulation you needs to reach climax.

To give this sex position extra sizzle:

You can slip your fingers between your two pubic areas. Ask him what feels best as you do this – whether you use one or two or more fingers slipped between you. Or ask him to slip his fingers between your pubic areas.

Now you or he can apply gentle circular pressure about three inches below your belly button to this area. As you're moving your clitoris against his pubic bone, and you're stimulating with your fingers between your two bodies slightly above the pubic mound, you'll get immense pleasure.

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Sex positions with extra sizzle!

Coital Alignment Bliss (CAT)