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Getting comfortable with his desires

by Dr Patti Britton

question
Dear Dr Patti
Help! My fiancé likes oral sex, but I have no idea what I'm doing. I am not uncomfortable with it, just inexperienced. Can you give me any pointers?
L


answer
Dear L
I assume that you are referring to giving oral sex to your man, not being the lucky recipient. Fellatio, giving head, going down on a man all mean the same thing. Learning how to be an oral sex expert takes time and practice, as you'll need to find what you're comfortable with.

Liking giving oral sex is critical to performing your tasks with style. Even the slightest revulsion will be transmitted directly to his waiting member and can kill the beauty of the event.

Next, make sure that your man is clean and appealing before you get down to business. Varying your tongue and mouth positions, styles and techniques will help you find the perfect touch for his, and hopefully your, enjoyment. Oral sex is a skilled activity and an art form. The key is to like what you are doing, feel comfortable and confident, and make this a journey of pleasure for both of you. Using flavours such as whipped cream or chocolate sauce can add some extra fun to the experience. Licking the shaft as well as the head of the penis, along with using your hands on the skin around his manhood, will enhance the experience as well. Good luck!

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