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If sex is the last frontier to women's equality, then what does this mean for men? 'Women say, "I make more money than him so if I start instructing him in the bedroom, he's going to run screaming and I'll be left all alone. I don't want that,"' notes Laura. But Jennifer reassures. 'Most of our patients' male partners are always responsive to their partner's difficulties. Often they are relieved that it is all out in the open and that the woman is being honest. The process empowers them, too.'
Until now, the main solution to sexual dysfunction has been faking it. But according to the Bermans, that has to stop. 'Don't start it, and if you are doing it, stop,' Jennifer advises. 'It's hard if it's been going on for years and you suddenly stop. Be prepared for your relationship to go into crisis because your partner will feel it like a betrayal, and will wonder what else you have been lying about. It becomes a very big issue and you have to make sure you have support.'
Both women are keen to point out that although orgasm is correlated with sexual satisfaction, many women are satisfied by the intimacy of sex without climax. 'We don't advocate that sex should be goal oriented,' Laura says. 'It only causes distress if it becomes an issue that deserves treatment.'
And this is the main message of For Women Only; that sexual dysfunction is treatable, both medically and therapeutically. Thanks to the Berman sisters, the medical fraternity might be getting that message, too.
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