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Best tip for oral sex
The T-shaped position is best for oral sex. The woman lies flat on her back and the man approaches the clit from the side. Not only does it give him more control and room for tongue or toy action, it's ideal for women who have a very sensitive clitoris as it is easier to avoid the tip and go for the clitoral hood instead. The man's head can rest on the pubic mound giving additional stimulation.

Size matters
If he's small, then the best position is with you in missionary style with your legs up in the air. The man stands up to penetrate. He may have to manoeuvre your body into the right position. This way you get maximum penetration. Alternatively, if he's big try side by side, facing each other with one of your legs in between his legs. This position is made extra sexy as you're face to face for kissing and caressing each other.

Take control

Touching yourself when you're making love is a great way to boost your chances of orgasm. Don't feel embarrassed - a man loves to watch his partner play with herself. It's a great compliment too; you're showing your partner that you're relaxed and comfortable with him. If you're too shy to try just yet, place a pillow underneath your pelvic region when you make love. As well as changing the angle (be careful if he's big as it generally deepens penetration), you can rub your clitoris against the pillow for additional stimulation. And if you're feeling extra brave, use a toy on yourself -and even on him - he'll love it!

The Lovers' Guide to Sexual Positions (VHS £14.99 and DVD £17.99), is available from all good retailers.

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