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In search of her G-spot

by Dr Patti Britton

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Dear Dr Patti
I have a monogamous relationship with my fiancé. We share a very exciting and fulfilling sex life. My question is, what exactly is the ‘G spot’ that people talk about? And where is it supposed to be on a woman's body? Perhaps he has already found it, but I don't know what or where it is. Can you help me?
Z


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Dear Z
Lucky you for having such a great relationship and good on you for finding Mr Right and establishing a monogamous relationship. You deserve to have all that the wonders of sex can give — including the quest for the G-spot and the rewards of finding it.

Although not all experts agree that this area exists in a woman's body, I believe it is there and can be stimulated to give great pleasure. It is often identified as the urethral sponge — a soft area that is palpable, just about one-third of the way up the front wall of the vagina and best located when a woman is aroused. It pulses slightly when touched with a finger, and rubbing on the area can produce glorious sensations and eventually a feeling of orgasmic release.

In my clinical practice, women have reported that they have experienced a significantly different kind of orgasm, or release, with intense manual, penile or dildo penetration and stimulation of their G-spot. I prefer to think of it as a region, not a spot. Some women actually release a liquid when they reach their climax, which is known as female ejaculation. Serious sexual research suggests that many women have this capability. Your partner may need to be guided to locate and manipulate this area to your satisfaction. Exploring this possibility will increase the creativity and fun in your relationship. So go for it.

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