From porn to perversion
Dear Sally Ann,
I realise that many people use porn for a variety of reasons, and although I don't like my boyfriend looking at certain pages, I can handle it. What may break us up is the fact he's looking at, what I consider, way past porn - such as incest, some bondage and light torture. I think he's even been placing adverts in magazines. When I bring this up, he keeps saying, 'You're too sensitive, I'm just curious'. Should I dump him?
Mousylady
Your boyfriend's a pervert. He is not using light porn for a little recreation with your compliance; he is obsessed by hardcore, warpy stuff. It sounds like an addiction and he is so involved in it he is actually advertising and touting for material. I think people can go wonky about sex and once they're fallen over the cliff edge you can't get them back. You can't do anything about him but you can save yourself before the situation gets any more out of control.
Good luck
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