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Heavyweight sex
My husband and I have both gained weight since our marriage, making intercourse a bit difficult. My husband is normally large and long enough, but his weight is interfering with what used to be enjoyable. What positions are best for good sex, which won’t feel like a mini-marathon?
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For those who have generous amounts of flesh, I suggest some interesting and different sexual positions for intercourse. Most large-size couples find that the best technique is the ‘scissors’ position. In this one, you both lie facing each other, on your sides, and cross your legs over one another's scissors-style. Despite the weight of large legs, stomach and abdomen, this position often makes penetrative sex easier and more pleasurable.
Depending on your size and where you are carrying the extra pounds, you may also want to try the rear-entry position, or ‘doggy’ style. In this way, he can enter you from behind, with you on your knees or lying on your tummy on the bed, using a pillow under your abdomen for lift. If his stomach and middle prevent entry, this will not work. I also suggest using toys, dildos and vibrators, and watching videos, before attempting penetration, as this will help prepare you.
Don't worry about what you are doing right or wrong, and avoid seeing sexual intercourse as your sole source of ecstasy. Enjoy just being bodies together, playing with each other in ways that make you feel good in mind, body and heart.
One last suggestion: that you both consider losing weight and getting fit. A fit mind and body are important for great sex.
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