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Living out the top 3 female fantasies

by Tracey Cox
continued from page 1
Fantasy 2: He's your sex slave
Why it appeals to you: Having someone at your sexual beck and call has obvious benefits. You don't have to worry about the 'no, you first dear' niceties of sex; it's all about your pleasure, and your pleasure alone.
Why he'll love it too: Something happens to women during this scenario; they start suggesting things they wouldn't dare during 'normal' lovemaking. Who wouldn't love a wild woman in his bed?

What you'll need:

  • A leather jacket worn over black underwear
  • Stockings and a push-up bra
  • Knee-high or thigh-high boots
  • A blindfold, scarves or old stockings to tie him up
  • A wooden spoon or hairbrush

The action plan:
Start by ordering him to do small tasks - get you a drink, fluff up the pillows, give you a foot massage. Don't ask, order. Make it clear that you are the boss and he is not to misbehave or he'll be punished (think of a mild punishment beforehand, like spanking him with the wooden spoon). Try to keep an expressionless face. No asking Are you okay?, Did I hurt you?, Are you sure you're enjoying this? This isn't about him - it's all about you!

Once you're both in character, order him to sit or lie down, face turned away from you. Blindfold him and tie his hands behind his back, then push him forward into a submissive position. He's now naked, bound and blindfolded - completely at your mercy! Grab your wooden spoon or brush and administer a few short, sharp whacks on his bottom. Start caressing and stroking his bottom, the backs of his thighs, reach between his legs and caress his testicles. Wait until he's moaning for more... then stop.

Tell him it's up to you to decide what he gets and when, and he has to satisfy you first. Turn him around and order him to do whatever you'd like. No matter how pleasurable what he's doing to you might be, push him away when he seems to be enjoying himself the most. Grab his hair, hold it tightly and tell him he's been a bad boy. Administer a few more smacks on his bottom with the spoon. If you're into talking dirty, keep a running commentary of what's happening. If he's blindfolded, paint a picture of what you're seeing: Look at you, you're begging for it. I bet you'd love to be untied. But you're my slave. You have to do every single thing I say. Do you understand me? Are you going to behave? The fantasy ends with you announcing - dramatically - that he's now free... to service you.



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