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And of course, there are recreational drugs, which seem to have been around for as long as recreational sex. Unfortunately brewer's droop doesn't only occur with beer - a number of currently fashionable substances also make you feel like you're having a better time than you really are.
Some of the legal 'feel-good' drugs have the same drawback - they do more for your mood than your reputation. Think twice before you tell the doctor you're depressed about your love life - if he or she prescribes Prozac (or a similar synthetic compound) you'll certainly feel happier, but you can forget about sex for a while - a common side effect is loss of desire.
3. Sex without side effects
But if oysters, chocolate and ginkgo biloba don't guarantee multiple orgasms, prescription drugs have side effects and recreational drugs aren't all they're cracked up to be, what are the alternatives? Pornography? Masturbation? Couples holidays? Ann Summers' Parties? Therapy?
Before you throw caution to the wind, why not try a few of the simple and obvious solutions?
• Massage is a great pre-sex ritual. Anywhere or anything that makes your lover feel good will improve the end result for both of you. Take time to focus on your partner's body and your own sensations.
• A walk near trees or water puts you in touch with natural energy (as opposed to strolling down a busy street which will simply put you in touch with stress).
• An exciting experience that gets your adrenaline going will generate some of the chemicals you need for sex. It could be a trip to the fair, a scary movie, a white water rafting trip or even a parachute jump.
• A slow, elaborate meal has always been one of life's greatest aphrodisiacs (and it doesn't have to be oysters). Lovingly prepared food is supposed to contain emotions as well as protein and carbohydrates. It's worth a try.
Think about what's worked for you in the past but be prepared to try some new ideas as well.
And of course, there are recreational drugs, which seem to have been around for as long as recreational sex. Unfortunately brewer's droop doesn't only occur with beer - a number of currently fashionable substances also make you feel like you're having a better time than you really are.
Some of the legal 'feel-good' drugs have the same drawback - they do more for your mood than your reputation. Think twice before you tell the doctor you're depressed about your love life - if he or she prescribes Prozac (or a similar synthetic compound) you'll certainly feel happier, but you can forget about sex for a while - a common side effect is loss of desire.
3. Sex without side effects
But if oysters, chocolate and ginkgo biloba don't guarantee multiple orgasms, prescription drugs have side effects and recreational drugs aren't all they're cracked up to be, what are the alternatives? Pornography? Masturbation? Couples holidays? Ann Summers' Parties? Therapy?
Before you throw caution to the wind, why not try a few of the simple and obvious solutions?
• Massage is a great pre-sex ritual. Anywhere or anything that makes your lover feel good will improve the end result for both of you. Take time to focus on your partner's body and your own sensations.
• A walk near trees or water puts you in touch with natural energy (as opposed to strolling down a busy street which will simply put you in touch with stress).
• An exciting experience that gets your adrenaline going will generate some of the chemicals you need for sex. It could be a trip to the fair, a scary movie, a white water rafting trip or even a parachute jump.
• A slow, elaborate meal has always been one of life's greatest aphrodisiacs (and it doesn't have to be oysters). Lovingly prepared food is supposed to contain emotions as well as protein and carbohydrates. It's worth a try.
Think about what's worked for you in the past but be prepared to try some new ideas as well.
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