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How to introduce your toy to your man
Most men think they've died and gone to heaven if you mention sex toys, particularly if you make it clear that whatever you're buying can be used on him as well as on you.
The only time you might hit problems is with a vibrator - some dinosaur males might panic that they're not satisfying you. First of all, reassure him that a vibrator is an additional goodie not a replacement man. And second, be confident when you broach the subject - if you're nervous, he'll think he has something to worry about.
How to use sex toys
As with sex itself, so with sex toys, whatever turns you on is fine - there's absolutely no wrong way. Also as with sex, don't expect to get it right first time - you'll need to experiment. So read the instructions and start playing. Don't aim for the heights of passion right away - notice what feels good and do it again; if something doesn't work after a few tries, forget it.
Final note - always remember to clean sex toys before use and after - and if you're sharing a penis-shaped toy with a partner, use a condom - just as you would with the real thing.
What to try
Edible goodies
Even in the high street you can get chocolate body paint - smear it on, lick it off. You can use it to paint his or your parts, or write suggestive words and naughty pictures on each other's backs or thighs.
But also try going further with sweet body dust, suggestively shaped candies, edible massage oils, and even edible knickers.
Recommended: Honey Dust (£19.99), sweet-tasting powder to sprinkle wherever you like.
How to introduce your toy to your man
Most men think they've died and gone to heaven if you mention sex toys, particularly if you make it clear that whatever you're buying can be used on him as well as on you.
The only time you might hit problems is with a vibrator - some dinosaur males might panic that they're not satisfying you. First of all, reassure him that a vibrator is an additional goodie not a replacement man. And second, be confident when you broach the subject - if you're nervous, he'll think he has something to worry about.
How to use sex toys
As with sex itself, so with sex toys, whatever turns you on is fine - there's absolutely no wrong way. Also as with sex, don't expect to get it right first time - you'll need to experiment. So read the instructions and start playing. Don't aim for the heights of passion right away - notice what feels good and do it again; if something doesn't work after a few tries, forget it.
Final note - always remember to clean sex toys before use and after - and if you're sharing a penis-shaped toy with a partner, use a condom - just as you would with the real thing.
What to try
Edible goodies
Even in the high street you can get chocolate body paint - smear it on, lick it off. You can use it to paint his or your parts, or write suggestive words and naughty pictures on each other's backs or thighs.
But also try going further with sweet body dust, suggestively shaped candies, edible massage oils, and even edible knickers.
Recommended: Honey Dust (£19.99), sweet-tasting powder to sprinkle wherever you like.
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