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Good vibrations

by Susan Quilliam
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Massage aids
Oils are great - and you can also buy feathers, silk scarves and massage mitts covered in velvet or fur. Whatever you use, start gently and at your partner's extremities, then work inwards, teasing lightly and working up to more pressure.
Recommended: Massage Stroker (£22), a massage glove that warms and soothes - you can also use it with a vibrator inside for added stimulation.

Dressing up
If you fancy yourself as a naughty French maid - or your man as a leather-clad biker - then most sex shops will have the necessary to help you act out your fantasies.
Recommended: The Ann Summers website (www.annsummers.com) for a varied collection of undies, nightwear and dressing-up gear.

Playing the game
Sexy board games are a fun way to break the ice and introduce new techniques under the sheets. If you're a new couple the questions and tasks help break down your inhibitions - and if you're a more established partnership, they'll remind you of things you may have forgotten you ever did.
Recommended: Nookii (£24.99): this is a dare game - the cards urge you on to do more and more.

Ties and blinds
Not everyone likes being tied up - but those who do claim that there's nothing like feeling at your partner's mercy. You can do this with ordinary silk scarves, but most sex stores also sell handcuffs, blindfolds, collars and cuffs all with instant release fastenings.

Remember not to put anything into a partner's mouth or round their throat. Also agree a 'safe' word between you - a term you wouldn't normally use during sex so that if the tied one gets into difficulty, it's obvious that they want to call a halt immediately.
Recommended: Passion Love Cuffs (£10.99) - available in soft leopard skin, these are pretty and not too scary for beginners.

Why not spice up your top drawer with some saucy treats from the iVillage sex shop?



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