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Living out the top 3 female fantasies

by Tracey Cox
continued from page 2
Fantasy 3: You're abducted by a stranger
Why it appeals to you: The 'safe rape' is a very common female fantasy - but it's such a far cry from the real thing it seems ridiculous to even call it rape. Passionate and forceful, but never violent or painful, the 'rapes' in our head differ because we're always in control, even though we're being 'forced' to submit.

Why he'll love it too: Being the physical aggressor is taboo for men. Being given a 'harmless' outlet to let loose some deeply primitive urges without being punished is appealing.

What you'll need to act it out: A quiet bedroom and a mirror.
The action plan: You're naked while he's dressed in street clothes (a dark suit would play up the mysterious stranger element). You're in your bedroom, admiring your body with your hands and your eyes in a full-length mirror. He sneaks up silently behind you, covers your eyes with his hands and says, Shhh! I won't hurt you. But you have to do exactly as I say. You freeze and pretend to be terrified. You're not sure what to do, knowing that he'll overpower you if you try to get away. He waits for you to calm down and for your breathing to become regular again. Meanwhile, you're conscious of the sensation of your naked skin against the roughness of his clothes - and you're oddly excited by it.

He tells you in a low, suggestive voice, that you should draw your curtains before getting undressed at night. He's been watching and fantasising and masturbating while watching you for weeks - and he just had to have you. He knows that your boyfriend isn't due home for hours and that no one else is coming to rescue you either. You remain motionless. You're torn between wanting desperately to be saved and being sexually fascinated by the idea of someone wanting you so badly that they'd risk everything. You don't say a word. Still standing behind you, he keeps one hand over your eyes and uses the other to stroke your breasts, your stomach, your neck and your thighs. You're not sure how to react. You can feel yourself starting to respond physically, even though you know you shouldn't.

As he touches you, he starts telling you exactly what he plans to do to you - in detail. It seems as if he knows exactly what turns you on and talks just the way you want him to, be it seductive and suggestive, or coarse and explicit. When he feels you begin to weaken, he removes his hands from your eyes and you look in the mirror to see him standing behind you, hands on your breasts, his mouth buried in the nape of your neck, kissing you. He's even sexier than you'd dared hope. Your resistance wanes, but you refuse to let him know you're turned on.

Just when you're beginning to relax, he pulls your arms gently behind your back, holding them together at the wrist and using his other hand to continue exploring. He maintains eye contact in the mirror and challenges you to tell him you're not enjoying what he's doing. At first, you shake your head and say you're not. But he tells you that you have no choice; you're in his power.

You resist everything he tries... at first. Then you let him continue. You don't admit that you're erotically charged, but your body is giving you away. You're ready for him. Come on, you want it, he whispers while licking, touching and stimulating you until you can't take it anymore. Finally you let him penetrate. You give in and leave all the initial innocence behind - resulting in a climax so powerful the neighbours bang on the ceiling!

Not sure how to introduce fantasies into your bedroom in the first place? Afraid he'll reject you? Check out my answers to the most frequently asked questions about this sexual adventure.

tracey cox Tracey Cox is an international sex, body language and relationships expert, as well as a TV personality. Her television credits include Date Patrol, The Sex Inspectors and many other shows. She's also appeared on Oprah and CNN. Tracey has an academic background in psychology. Her books Hot Sex, Hot Relationships, Supersex and Superflirt are all international bestsellers.


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