Fix your sex life
1. Is it really time for a change?
Why do you think your sex life needs fixing?
• Because you're bored.
• Because you're lonely.
• Because a relationship has just ended.
• Because you can remember a time when it was much better.
• Because you're getting more complaints than you used to.
• Because everybody you know is having more fun than you.
• Because the media and the advertising agencies have sold you the idea that you should be having ecstatic, orgasmic sex at least twice a day.
• Because your sex life takes up so much time that you can't get to work in the morning or shop for groceries.
• Because your sexual preferences are unhealthy or illegal.
How many of the above apply to you and what do your answers tell you? Do you really want more sex, or just different sex? If, deep down, you're quite happy with things the way they are, then get on with your life. You can always lie about your night-time exploits it if you want to look good - it's probably what everybody else is doing.
2. Sexual chemistry
Good sex is easy when the pheromones are right - try smelling his armpits if you're not sure - or if you know how to mix the right chemicals. And adjusting your own chemical balance isn't new. People have been doing it for centuries. Almost any substance that has been hard to get or weird to look at has been used as an aphrodisiac at one time or another - even tomatoes.
But now the pharmaceutical industry has taken the ingredient x out of the aphrodisiac business by inventing synthetic hormones and drugs like Viagra - which actually work. However, if you prefer the natural approach, you can still buy aphrodisiacs from local health stores - and they often come with a free crystal.
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