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He wants a threesome
My boyfriend of nine months has changed. He drinks constantly and won't allow me out with my mates. He drools over other woman and acts like a dog on heat when he sees someone he fancies. We used to have great sex but now he just wants hand jobs and blowjobs and avoids touching me. How can I make him want me again? He wants a threesome with another girl but I don't feel we are ready for it - if he's not interested in me why should I do that for him?
I know you're asking me about the sex life - but I don't think that's the issue at all. I think you ought to be looking at the love life you have with your man, because to me it's seriously out of order.
What on earth are you doing with someone who drinks all the time, who doesn't allow you to go out, who demands oral sex and who tries to force you into threesomes? He doesn't love you, and he never will - so why stick with him?
Please find the courage not just to tell this guy you won't have a threesome, but also to tell him you won't have a relationship. You absolutely must get rid of him and find someone who treats you well.
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