35 sex tips for girls (from men)

Handjobs

Get in touch with what makes him tick
If he's not the talkative type, use your hands to find out what works and what doesn't. Have a fiddle around, and see how he responds.
Matt Wyman

Guide him by the hand
Showing your man what turns you on can be just as arousing for him. If he's missing the mark, give him directions. If he can see the pleasure he's giving you, it will boost his confidence and help him to relax.
Matt Wyman

Lose your inhibitions
Go wild in his hands, and he'll be sure to rise to the challenge. Even if he's a little shy himself, by taking the lead you'll bring out the best in him.
Matt Wyman

Power him up
When jerking your chap off, alternating attention between the tip of the penis (which is extremely sensitive) to the base (which can take more punishment) will keep him extremely happy indeed and produce a more powerful orgasm.
Al Needham

Pole position
When you've grabbed his todger in your hand, don't just use an up-and-down motion. For variety, wrap your entire hand around the shaft, and twist up and down like you're following an imaginary red stripe on a barber's pole.
Alexander James

If all else fails...pray
If you're looking for a different handjob technique, the prayer position is very satisfying for him and less strenuous for you. Lube up your palms, bring the hands together around his todge, and make a gentle chopping motion. Not only will it prevent you developing an arm like Popeye's, he gets the satisfaction of seeing you use two hands when one will do.
Al Needham

Mix it up
Women love a blended orgasm - when more than one part is stimulated at the same time - and the same goes for men. Don't think of his penis as a hunk of meat attached to his body; imagine it as a complex bit of kit with many different components, each giving off their own particular sensations. A handjob is all very nice, but when you combine it with a swirl of the tongue round the glans or a caress of the balls (or both) get ready to step back.
Al Needham

Talk to him
Many men are actually worried about whether their cock is long enough, thick enough, and if you find it attractive. If you do, then praise it. Tell him how much you like it, then go back to him with your mouth. You will get his attention, believe me!
smilingjack88

Give him options
Ask 'where would you like to come?' when giving a handjob.
zarek