Sex toys you already have in the house
Hand-held shower head
You probably never guessed that a sex toy could be found right in your bathtub - and we don’t mean your rubber ducky. A removable showerhead is a natural do-it-yourself sex toy for newbies, says Dr. Victoria Zrdok Wilson JD, Ph.D. and John Wilson MFT, married couple and authors of The 30-Day Sex Solution. This common bathroom fixture combines touch with temperature, along with adjustable speed and pressure settings for various degrees of stimulation. Plus, couples can lather up together, using the handy device on breasts and genitals for some wet-and-wild fun!
See also: Sex toys for single ladies
Scarves and ties
A spicier sex life may be lying at the bottom of your accessories drawer. Cover your man’s eyes with a scarf - a perfect makeshift blindfold, recommends Rachel Venning, Babeland co-founder and co-author of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. A blindfold deprives him of sight but heightens his other senses simultaneously. Other possible sexy accessories to consider: your man’s necktie or the belt from your bathrobe, suggests Jordan LaRousse and Samantha Sade, editors of Nice Girls, Naughty Sex and creators of OystersandChocolate.com.
See also: Sex toys for single ladies
Mobile phone
Mobile phones are no longer just for calls and texts! Set you mobile to the vibrate mode and have your mate hit redial, Venning says. Alone? Gals with an iPhone can download an app for solo play. MyVibe by MyPleasure allows you to control the mobile's pulses, from short and quick to longer and slower ones.
See also: Sex toys for single ladies
Mouthwash
Minty-fresh products like mouthwash, cough drops and breath mints aren't just for covering up bad breath. Peppermint, in particular, promotes circulation and increases blood flow for a more intense sexual response. Plus, these items also provide a cool and tingly sensation during oral sex. But only use mouthwash before, not during, because the astringency can be painful on sensitive genital skin.
See also: Sex toys for single ladies
Pastry brushes and spatulas
Bring some culinary tools into your bedroom and you’ll end up wanting to do more than just kiss the cook. LaRousse and Sade recommend a pastry brush to tickle your partner. The soft bristles let you gently caress tender areas (think: nipples or the shaft) for a tantalizing time. Run the brush under warm or cold water before it touches your mate. For extra sensation, pull out the spatula or whisk for a light spanking session.
See also: Sex toys for single ladies
Waching machine
Sunday chores will never be boring again after you and your man get down and dirty with the laundry. Being aroused by the shimmy and shake of this household appliance may seem like an old wives’ tale, but it never hurts to try, says Venning. Although the effects are probably not sufficient for an orgasm, the vibrations and warmth may add a bit of stimulationSee also: Sex toys for single ladiesLotion
The slippery-smoothness of lotion is the perfect complement to a hand job. “Inexpensive lotion is a longtime favourite masturbation tool of the men that we've surveyed,” LaRousse and Sade explain. Oil-based lotions have the best consistency and won’t dry out, but keep in mind that there are a few drawbacks, such as stained sheets. Never use oil-based lotions with a condom or latex toy because the oil will break down the materials, and only apply them externally (not vaginally or anally as they may leave a coating that can lead to infection). Play it safe and stick with water-based lubes down there.
See also: Sex toys for single ladies
Heat pad
Besides alleviating tired muscles and helping with relaxation, this first-aid staple, when set to an ideal temperature, can help encourage increased blood flow in your nether regions, says Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., M.S.Ed., sexual health and relationship ambassador for Astroglide. This happens naturally when you’re sexually excited, but applying the device to your lower back or butt (or placing it under your sheets) will intensify the experience. Many arousal gels work in the same way, generating heat to increase circulation and stimulation.
See also: Sex toys for single ladies
Stereo speaker
Who can forget the female caller who reaches orgasm while straddling a subwoofer in Howard Stern's biopic, Private Parts? Sure, it may have seemed a bit far-fetched, but it’s worth a try. You would need a concert-quality home system to produce enough throbbing bass to climax, while trying not to wake the neighbours! But any pulsating object (like a speaker or washing machine) has the potential to awaken the groin, especially if in contact with the clitoris, thanks to the pelvic area’s 15,000 nerves.
See also: Sex toys for single ladies
Mirrors
Ideal for anyone with an exhibitionist streak, mirrors add visual and mental stimulation to your sex life. Venning suggests placing a chair in front of a mirror, then have your guy sit down and perch yourself on top of him. His hands can reach around and play with your breasts, which will be fun for both of you to watch. A mirror lets you both see your facial expressions and enjoy the view. Or try experimenting with hand-held mirrors to catch a close up glimpse of body parts in action.
See also: Sex toys for single ladiesGummy sweets
Slip a gummy ring on your guy’s penis to serve as an edible cock ring during oral sex. “Cock rings are designed to trap blood in the penis, creating a pleasurable sense of pressure,” Venning explains. You can nibble off this chewy version, satisfying your partner and your sweet tooth at the same time. But keep sugary snacks away from your vaginal opening to avoid infection.
See also: Sex toys for single ladies
Aloe Vera
Raid your bathroom cabinet if you and your partner find yourself short on lube. Aloe Vera is a common ingredient in most lubricants, Venning says, so it’s safe to apply straight from the plant. If you have a gel product instead, make sure to read the label on the bottle first. Don’t use if it says “for external use only” or contains other additives or preservatives, such as alcohol, that may cause irritation or infection.
See also: Sex toys for single ladies
Next Up: Budget sex toys
Don't let the credit crunch ruin your sex life!
- Getty Images,





































Comments