Shhh! Secret sex confessions of the community

“I've met another guy who studies the same thing I do and we started talking at a party and things just got out of hand. I went to a bathroom with this guy, joking about having sex and such. Nothing was meant to happen, but we ended up kissing in there... while my perfect boyfriend was right there, two rooms away!”

On weird crushes: “Oh the character Del Boy! Not so much David Jason, just the character he plays! I’d be there in a heartbeat, don’t know what it is, there’s just something about him!”

“I love the wife and family. But I did a stupid thing that took only a few online clicks and I've been caught signing up to silly adult chat sites. What an idiot I have been.” 

“Went over to his house, and he did not come home all night. Next day he said that he had been for dinner at his mate’s house and had fallen asleep there. My alarm bells were ringing and it did not seem true. Well.. I went and read his emails.. turns out he slept with his ex that night. He went over to talk to her and say that he would never get back with her... And then had sex!”

“I've been with my boyfriend for a year. He was previously married (separated before we started seeing each other). Anyway, I found out last month he'd slept with his mother-in-law while he was married!”

“I’m having a fling with a female friend... When she got tearful I put my arms around her and she hugged me and the next thing I know we were kissing and more. It was amazing and I told her it was. I have fancied her for ages but have never told anyone, let alone her!”

“Last month I had a huge row with my partner and we didn’t speak for a few days. Feeling low, I stupidly got drunk and had a one night stand which I immediately regretted. I have now found out I am pregnant by the man I slept with that night.” 

“I’m a totally different person to my ‘text person’, we've even started sending dirty photos on our phones! Me and 'text person' never talk about day-to-day things, just sex. I’d never had phone sex before now I have it a few nights a week.” 

“I met him as a teenager 25 years ago, my first lover. Out of the blue on a bus I met him again and we went for a coffee. From there on it's been nearly 25 years. Not just hurried moments, but also the day to day stuff like shopping together. We have a 13-year-old son together who my husband assumes is his.”