Going solo
iVillagers give advice on staying safe when you're travelling alone
Member dilemma:
I recently split up with my husband of seven years and feel like I need to get away for a while. I was thinking of doing a diving course in Malta for a week, and then going to Thailand, backpacking around the diving hotspots. I plan to go alone, but in the past I've always been a tourist, rather than a traveller, with the hotel booked, transfer from the airport sorted in advance, etc. Although I love the concept, the reality of travelling alone scares me. Has anyone else done anything like this?
traceydl2003
Go for it
I have travelled extensively in Asia; I did my PADI open water qualification in Malaysia, and went on to get my dive master certificate in Thailand and Australia. When I left I was afraid of going it alone, but a few weeks in I was in my element, it was and still is one of the best things I have ever done.
sirren_xx
A friend's daughter is a bit bohemian and has been travelling the world alone, taking on odd jobs for 13 years now, and has only had bother when she's come off her motorbike! Travelling alone can be very rewarding - especially doing what you want when you want, with no compromises.
cl-ceammi
I haven't travelled by myself for about five years, but I studied languages at university and went away by myself all the time, and just loved it. It makes you grow, and you'll come back a different and stronger person. Admittedly, it takes a bit of courage. You'll feel daunted and part of you will wish you weren't going. However, the sense of achievement and independence that you get from travelling by yourself is enormous.
cl-cocktailprincess
Safety tips
Travelling alone is safe as long as you respect where you are and the culture you are in. The Thais are Buddhist, which generally means they are peace-loving and gentle. However, they are also poor, and will take an opportunity if it arises, so be aware of your possessions. Do not flaunt your money and be respectful of these wonderful people, and you will be fine! Having said this, I was ripped off by another backpacker who stole from me, so remember that just because they are travellers, does not mean they have to have scruples!
sirren_xx
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Created: 21/01/2004 Updated: 09/08/2006
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