Why not indulge him this Easter?

Often, the wise way to kick-start your relationship - and get him to indulge you - is to start by indulging him first! iVillage.co.uk love and sex expert Dr Pam Spurr offers some simple strategies to use on him that'll guarantee you're enjoying some fringe benefits soon!

Flaunt your feminine side

It sounds old-fashioned but he'll love it if you flaunt your feminine side by wearing some your prettiest, sexiest things. Men don't mind the 'comfy, old grey tracksuit' look if you alternate it with some of your feminine frocks.

They love our girly side, so climb out of your home-based grunge and get into some gear that shows off your feminine attributes.

A little distance leads to big appreciation

No matter how loved-up you two are, sometimes we can be demanding about getting his attention 24/7. So strike that delicate balance between wanting to cuddle up to him and knowing when to give him a little space - like when he's watching sport on the telly!

When you give him that space use it as a chance to catch up with your girlfriends on the phone. That little bit of space will make him appreciate you all the more.

Ch-ch-ch-changes

Surprise him with a new look - change your hair colour or hair style, or even wear a different style. Men are such visual creatures that they love things to change visually from time to time.

Or have some sexy fun, buy a wig, and greet him at the door as an entirely 'different' woman. Give yourself a flirty nickname - 'Mandy' springs to mind - and pretend you want to have a one night stand in your new persona!

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