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Keep a lid on it
The wine is flowing, spirits are high, work is, hopefully, minimal and it's the one time when you can really let your hair down. Or is it? Here's how to keep your cool and stop those simmering passions and festering grudges from getting out of control.Christmas can and should be the best time of the year in the office, but it's also the time when all the simmering passions, feuds, crushes and resentments can bubble to the surface - often with disastrous results.
There are potential cringe-making pitfalls around every corner and reputations can be made or broken. Emerge from the Christmas season as a cool, together, fun person and you'll begin the New Year on a high. But come out of it slinking into the office with egg all over your face, and you'll regret it all year. And your job may be in tatters.
So here's my guide to the do's and don'ts of the party season in the office and to keeping your job, reputation and dignity intact.
The times and places
First of all watch out for the potential crisis situations. These are usually the ones where there's alcohol flowing, like the office party, after-work drinks and outings, but can also include late nights, Christmas Eve or the days between Christmas and New Year, when there may just be a few of you in the office and no-one really feels like working.
Lindsay remembers, 'Last Christmas I got so drunk at the office party that I danced on the table in a micro skirt. I spent the next six months with a red face skulking behind filing cabinets.'
At these times:
Don't drink too much. Either avoid alcohol altogether or decide on your limit and stick to it by drinking slowly or switching to soft drinks.
Don't say anything you wouldn't say on a normal day in the office. Avoid phrases such as:
Don't trust your own judgment if you suddenly decide the office casanova is a nice bloke who just needs the right woman, or realise you fancy someone you've been working alongside. Chances are that it's Christmas lust and you'll regret it horribly later.
Don't gossip. Resist the impulse to criticise that over-the-top outfit, to speculate over who fancies who or to let it be known that you think so-and-so is about to get the push.
Don't wear clothes that reveal parts of you you'll later regret showing off to the office junior.
John regrets, 'I knew I was doing well in my new job then I blew it by coming onto my boss at a Christmas drinks do. She cold-shouldered me for weeks and I came close to resigning.'
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